From the Evening

I have seen them summer nights turn into dawn on the road. 

I am starting to notice the curve of the earth, and wonder why all things slip away.

I don't know anything going on that isn't 15 feet ahead through my camera. 

I've had to turn it away from time to time, when I become a witness to the kind of brittle moments that break apart in sharing:

The youngest share a kiss on a balcony. I see them in the jungle moonlight, in the last breath of ancient history. I will hold onto this long after they've outgrown the moment. The others just point and giggle.

The older boys tell me I have the mind of a child (and that is why I don't have a girlfriend). I hope they're right, really I do. 

As they doze in church I can fidget and keep myself awake with nonsense thoughts and wonder. I have filmed them singing in half the Romanian churches in Illinois. When the shutter closes I sit in the back and squint at the pastors lips, struggling to read them.

Sometimes they offer earpiece translators. I put them in and hear static, background radiation: the creation of the universe. I always turn it up loud.

I don't understand the words, but some part of me--an old gypsy in a rocking chair within knows how to feel them.

I can't sit still on the bus, shaking its way through the north. The group debates hotly some query of God and Man. I listen for electric translations of the Holy Spirit, words that sound like my words, eccentric gestures the same in any language. 

Sobi (a listener, like me) pulls their words from his phone to my ear in English: they are talking of devils, there was a demon boy, that ten priests could not hold down, or...

He can't find the right words..."cast out".

My foot taps, nervous. Inaudible rhythms take me back ten years-- my distractions echo in every steeple chiming every hour chiming. Cast out. It took nine more priests to give up on my demons.

They dunk my head in plain water and call it a day. 

I tap my left foot in church in time to my right in school. There doctors diagnose the devil in me with a jumble of letters. If you pronounced them, it might sound Romanian to you. But they failed to cure it, nuking inhibition with prescriptioned street drugs instead. 

These sordid devils will kick in my belly for ten years before I cast them out in handfuls myself. 

They swim around my shoulders, their tails curl up in childhood every night. They whisper good and evil in my ear, switching shoulders. 

A whisper to the right tells me I am in the wrong place. I am too odd. I stray too far from their ideas about God and Man. 

You will live with me your whole life, it seems to say.

I wrestle its tongue from my ear and retort, but careful not to wake the boys in the room. They don't hear the demons, and they sure don't believe in ghosts.

The boys wake me up every day in a chorus of jokes. Their eyes assure me we aren't so different: there are two of them, with two hands to shake. They have just one heart, and innumerable hopes and fears, just like you. Mathematically, we are identical. We all have two parents: the earth is our mother, the sky is our father, and no cruel surrogate can take that from any of you. 

None of our mistakes can hold us through the night. When we see them in the morning the sun always finds them in different shape.

When the children throw things in the air and push each other over, they are teaching themselves physics.

When one of the boys takes from another, he is learning to count, and how not to feel bad for anything he does, or maybe not.

The boys will fart on each other just to feel the warmth, but the girls play for fire. They let the indian sun kiss them till they're burnt their favorite colors.

They take turns pushing each other over. The sweetest is Lorraina, and her game is to pick them all up again. I wonder what she is learning. She teaches me that some things are worth un-learning.

 

The smallest, Laurencio has a kissing problem. I bought him a toy for this. I want to tell him there won't always be new toys, in life.

I want to tell him that all his problems are just future solutions.

 

(But I'm still waiting for something to tell me the same)

Everyone they meet gets them some toy for their hardship. They trade them for a change in their own face, a batch of new rhythms for an old heart to beat.

Dear reader you would love a darling orphan in your life. You would want to give them all you have. You would empty your pockets of life lessons. 

You would hold them to dust. 

It's all your body wants, and it would strangle your dreams to do it.

 

I have learned that we are all the servant of a child. We do it all for the future, and this is why it's so rare to feel the present in your hands.

The bad seeds in our backyard years will grow into tomorrow, where no force of man can ever touch them. They will flourish in the sun, tomorrow we will see that we are never finished, never right or wrong or anything but children in the round eyes of God. 

And our little masters will sing:

Datta. Damyata. Dayadhvam.

  Holy father

         (Holy mother)

I love you, beyond meaning.

So much and more in a kiss on the cheek goodnight, a hug tighter so much tighter than the shake of any priest.

So much and more will haunt me into dawn, where ten years come and go as they please.

Marcel, the head of the tour, keeps telling me in quiet times they will stay with me: like a weed, these moments will stay with me. 

I think about them late at night--I have to echo them back to you like a ghost so I can keep smiling for the kids. 

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We will be in the Chicago area for two more weeks. 

Then we fly away for Romania.